"It's Nobody's Business" Says Wolf Hudson

I received a great and unexpected text today from my friend Grabby Awards Co-Host Wolf Hudson, 3-time nominee at this year's GAYVN Awards including Best Performer of the Year, and we made arrangements to spend some time to chat during his visit to attend the GAYVNs this weekend. After trading text messages, I paid a visit to Wolf's blog site, www.wolfhudsonxxx.blogspot.com, which I hadn't done in sometime and discovered his latest youtube vlog talking about his sexuality, or rather, not talking about his sexuality. Wolf and I have been friends since his arrival to San Francisco a couple of years ago, and continue our friendship since his move to LA, and I have known about his dislike of the term "gay-for-pay" for quite some time. I, myself, knowing this have asked him about the term in an interview, but I have never asked him about or criticized him about his sexuality. Wolf is what I have called the Triple Threat in the adult film industry, with work in gay porn, straight porn, and kink films. Come on, let's face it. It's all fantasy. I don't care what the true sexuality of the models are when I am watching porn on video or on the internet. As long as they are good at helping me live out my fantasy at the moment, I don't honestly give a damn. We will give accolades to a straight actor for playing a gay man in a commercial movie to the point of rewarding him with the highest honor in his field, the Academy Award, but we can't view models in the porn industry with the same mindset. So, I stand up on the theater chair and appplaud you Wolf for your great body of work, and go on record to say that I will never ask you about your sexuality because

"It's just not any of my business"

.